Ladies: Signs He’s Just Using You

A woman in love is a woman who will do anything for her man and a the man knows this. So he takes advantage of that fact and once he’s done with you, he’ll just throw you away like garbage. You wouldn’t want that to happen to you. So here are the tell tale signs so you can walk away before you become a victim of such shameless men.

1. He’ll be there ‘and support you’ during the good times.

Every time you succeed, in his mind he also succeeds for his own selfish reasons. So when you are winning he’ll be right by your side ‘celebrating’ with you.

2. He’s financially dependent on you.

Especially when you are the bread winner.

3. He’s always asking for favors.

If you find that your man is constantly asking you to do things for him but he never returns the favor, then you are totally in a one-sided relationship – and that’s not okay.

4. People around you and your friends see right through his act. 

Sometimes it’s good to listen to other people’s advice.

5. He won’t talk about commitment. 

If you have been spending a lot of time with a guy you have every right to wonder where he sees things going in the near future. You shouldn’t have any problems when asking him important questions about the state of your relationship status.

6. He always posts pictures of you two together on social media. 

This is especially where he knows you’re popular and wants to show people that he is associated with you. Not because he really cares

7. He only sees you when he wants to, your timeline doesn’t matter. 

He’ll hit you up at certain times, but when you try and make plans he refuses to go through with it. It’s his way or the highway.

Stonebwoy Blasts 3Music Awards For Awarding Mediocrity

Dancehall singer Stonebwoy has expressed disappointment in organizers of 3Music Awards.

The “Shuga” hit maker won three awards, but says he was very disappointed not to have won more.

Stonebwoy’s rival Shatta Wale emerged the biggest winner on the night after grabbing seven (7) awards.


Speaking for the first time on the outcome of the awards, Stonebwoy said he was disappointed, while urging organisers of the 3Music Awards and other awards to eschew mediocrity.

“I was disappointed definitely but I kept to myself I was not going to say anything,” he said on Joy FM’s Showbiz A-Z, hosted by George Quaye.

“People’s awards are sitting in people’s homes…In Ghana sometimes mediocrity puts people who have to reward and award things in a box where they just lose it all and have to play by that but that will not bring any benefit, that will not bring any hope to those who are looking up to us. They would only have to turn to do mediocre stuff because that is being rewarded.”

He added: “So I will beg off all these awards organisers to try so hard in their own way even if they have to go out of their lines once they believe and know that this is the right thing because the right is devoid of influence…the right thing will vindicate itself?”

“It’s our music but the role that you play could be a per cent that adds up but it actually makes a big difference…you guys hold a very huge spot where when favouritism come inside and bias come inside and influence come inside it will definitely look someway.”